A wordy post again so try to inject some of your imaginations to make this post more interesting. I  totally have no idea what kind of picture I should upload for this post.

Actually I don't remember how Dear got my number. I think he stalked me. Our very first message was he asked me how I feel after my broke up with my ex. Such a bitch. We ended our conversation fast. The next time we text was about skipping our additional mathematics homework which my teacher was fucking particular about it. I had a crush on him so I tried to keep the conversation with him. Kay lah, I know I am very thick skin. Secret time: Dear's texting habit sucks. He was those who took forever to reply his messages, and eventually turning me off. Sorry, Dear. *laughs* Okay, moving on. Question of the day: Ask or give number?

Guys are usually braver compared to girls. Maybe because of the olden day thinking: Girls need to be more conservative, and guys should always the one taking the first step. Very often, we can see guys approaching girls to ask for number so that they can keep in contact with one another. I assumed in that way.

And today I am here to share some tips to increase your (guys) chance in getting the number of that special girl which you have been crushing on for a super long time. See, I am so good.

1. Don't behave like a gangster.
A good girl will never appreciate a gangster. She needs someone who can care for her, love her, not someone who always get into trouble. She needs a mature gentleman. Unless you are into bitches, if not you don't have to behave like a gangster in front of girls. Actually it is quite a turn off for girls. Be humble and show your sincerely in making friend with her.

2. Don't be over confident.
Although confident does give you courage and maybe a charisma which might attract her. But over confidence is annoying, which eventually causing her to have a wrong impression of you.

3. Don't take it as a bet with your friends.
It will only depict the act (getting the number) as a games, and how jerk you are. Girls will never like to be a part of the games which you and your friends played. They sensed insecurities. However many still bet with friends mainly because it encourages them. Try this instead: Have your friend staying near you but not following you to go over; too many people make things more intense. If possible, request your friends not to cheer or jeer because it is making that current situation to be more awkward. Just act normally. My definition of normally means behave like how a normal man would do.

Just remember: First impression counts and stay in heart.

Consequently, you have to see the right time to ask for her number. Usually there are two different kinds of situation - with her friends around or without.

When she was with her friends, she would be less frightened but at the same time, she might shy as her friends are "disturbing" her as well. Girls can be playful as well. However without her friends, there might have some discomfort as there is a stranger (that's you) asking for her number. Her mind would switch on a "danger" signal to remind herself what her mum, her dad, her sister, her brother and etc instructed her not to talk to stranger, or giving them any personal detail.

And this factor usually depend on what kinds of girl she is as well as depending on your thinking.

Back to topic. Ask or give number?

Asking for her number makes her to feel threatened as she don't know you well. (therefore lowering the chance of you getting her number) Even you managed to get her number, (you started texting her) but she can choose not to reply and maybe she will sue you for harassment. *kidding*

You don't have her number, but she has yours for the case of you giving your number to her. It normally arouses her curiousity. (when her curiousity overtakes, she will text you first.) So when she did, this shows she is kinda interested to make friend with you. If she never, fate isn't with you.

Lastly, before I end this long winded post, I shall share my best tip to all my patient readers who managed to read my boring post to this part. *bows* You can start your conversation with that special girl online and after a while claimed that you are going out soon and texting would be a easier way for you. Express your wish that the best is that she can text you. Remember to leave down your contact number, and go offline. This only works if you know your crush in real life. I was hoping that this tip would be useful. Sorry if it doesn't. *cries*

It's good to be able to talk to your crush. A relationship isn't about the meeting, it's about the ongoing communication. Guys please be reminded, don't keep go around asking for girls' number; that shows you are never serious in making friend with girl even when you are. Good luck, people.